Monday, November 30, 2015

Thanks-living 2015, Week Four

Day 23
A mash-up meme of Genesis 1:3 for Thanks-living Day 23. Lights are up in the backyard spruce tree. Phase One of Fulks outdoor lighting is complete, for grandchildren to see. Check!
And, a question for observant SW Missourians: Do we know where this manger scene picture was taken?

Day 24
In need of a plethora of last-minute groceries for our soon-arriving company. Thanks-living Day 24 is grateful for no need to kill a deer. Price Cutter and 3 Walmart Super Centers are each 10 minutes or less away, plus there is a Sam's; and, we are grateful for mouths to feed :)

Day 25
Hearing “Yes” at least 20 times a day is nothing notable, EXCEPT when that “Yes” comes from the same mouth; that of a 2-year-old (“No” is what I would expect). In Thanks-living today, each sweet “Yeth” brings a smile, as I would imagine God feels about my confirming “Yes” to His sometimes most confusing plans.

Day 26
"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: ...a time to plant and a time to uproot..." a time to prepare lots of food and a time to clean up. And, a time to eat tasty leftovers. We live thanks and now look forward to the next abundant season: The Season of Giving.


Thanks-living 2015, Week Three

Paris - "Not Afraid"
Day 15
Thanks-living, Day 15, recites:  "...in God I trust and am not afraid. What can man do to me?" (Psalm 56:11)

Day 16
Thanks-living Day 16 thinks about a joyful soul, clapping hands, and sometimes a dance even breaks out. And in the joyful process, a lot of raking and mulching has been done.
My Seuss-like poem is full of twirls and spins; just click this link:  And A Leaf Lands.


Day 17
Thanks-living Day 17, I am grateful for an amazing night's rest which helps me to recall God's amazing grace.

Day 18
I recall spring 2015's repeated and sometimes never-ending rain downpours in the Ozarks. Thanks-living Day 18 thoughts are grateful for rains that do come for needed waters and especially rains that go.

Day 19
Thanks-living Day 19 is grateful for the soles of my feet that feel squishy sand and steady ground; eyes to see the stars and sky and all of nature’s beauty; ears to hear birds chirping and laughter; teeth and tongue to chew and taste delectable foods including homemade pizza; the ability to smell those choice foods; hands and arms to hold my sweeties; thoughts to think about thanking; a sensitivity to love others; and, thankful to have those in my life to love... especially a God to love and to serve.

Day 20
Thanks-living Day 20 is grateful for new life.

Day 21
It is snowing in the Ozarks, and of course Kate is great (a picture of Kate scaling a wall was posted on this day). Day 21 Thanks-living and purpose: We had walls to scale at the age of 3, and hopefully we'll have meaningful walls to scale beyond age 63. Grateful that we still can, but would prefer the walls to not be daredevil slick. Tethered with His amazing grace and mercy.


Day 22
Grandchildren and children in general. They bring life, energy, discovery, and joy. I am blessed to have the sweetest little treasures in my family and in my neighborhood. Thanks-living Day 22's heart is figuratively full. And, my stomach is literally full as my test kitchen attempts to replicate the SHAPE of the orange snake dessert (bottom pic from GH) for Grandson #1's birthday. By the time this picture was taken (top pic), Jeff and I had consumed half of the delicious chocolate tail. Snake finale will LOOK better. Next experiment, gluten-free Brazilian cheesy bread balls.
Snake Finale, which "takes the cake"




Sunday, November 15, 2015

Not Leaves To Go Nor Leaves To Be Leaving, a Poem



Leaves. Once green. They provided shade and oxygen.
Then colorful vibrancy. Now wrinkled and crackly.
Leaves dizzily circle and spin, like a joyful dance. The yard they need to leave.

A rake dutifully rakes the leaves, from under and atop bushes. Leaves does the rake rake.
A blower blows the leaves. Leaves does the blower blow. Not to and fro, but into piles.
And then, when time is right, leaves to the yard waste disposal go? Why so?

Out, instead, a mulcher. A mulcher crunches the leaves.
Leaves, after all, can become helpful mulch, you know.
The purpose of leaves is transformed and also renewed.

In spring, lush, green grass and healthy trees.
Not leaves to go nor leaves to be leaving.
Leaves renewed and mulched help the growing to grow.
Not leaves to go nor leaves to be leaving.
And the growing includes new green leaves... and, again.
Not leaves to go nor leaves to be leaving.


Monday, November 9, 2015

Thanks-living 2015, Week Two

Day 8
Sometimes we finally ask for directions after banging into walls a few times. The Internet, YouTube, and I have developed a close bond this past year, for a variety of insightful answers to simple questions. Most recently, to fix our noisy garage doors that squeak when opening and closing. Repeated times, we have pulled out WD-40, expecting the spray to reduce friction and thus noise. For only a short time, the noise decreases, but it soon returns. (An info-mercial in the next paragraph? not. A thanks-living Ding.Ding.Ding. light-bulb moment? yes.)
Over the weekend, because of overlapping efforts, also helping Jeff’s Mom with her noisy garage door, the "Aha Moment" finally came. To turn to the Internet and YouTube in particular, to learn what specific parts of the doors to oil. The first and only video opened began with critical information I was not actually seeking: “Do not use WD-40 to lubricate your garage doors. It is more a de-greaser and cleaner than a lubricant.” The helpful Lowes associate agreed with that advice. So, basically, earlier efforts had been naively counter-productive. But now, thankfully, we are headed on the right track.

Day 9
Lists are a part of everyday life. Appointments. Groceries. General to-do's. And now holiday food, gift, and activities to-do lists. Calendars and lists categorize my world and keep things moving on track. The challenge occurs, however, when I lose a list, or if a calendar appointment disappears into thin air. Even though recalling names has never been my strength, and retrieving trite things like what we ate for dinner last night is at times a guessing game (chicken wraps), today’s thanks-living thought is to be grateful for a mindset that is still flexible enough to remember today’s 10:00 a.m. Mazda service appointment that curiously vanished from my phone's calendar.

Day 10
It seems almost mysterious how a just-right reading, or a song, or a fluke appointment strategically located, (or all of them, perfectly timed)… occur at pivotal moments, and even before we are most in need. I embrace thanks-living today, with this thought keenly in mind. Feeling.Undeservedly.God-Loved.*
Today's 11/28 post-script to Day 10 is titled, The Mysterious Continues: A $100 thank-you Touch Restaurant gift card was given to us, by an overly-gracious neighbor. Rather than my husband and I using it, Thanksgiving week we gave it to the kids for a meal without us; and, that same week, my accidental and perfectly-timed 30-minute synthesizing car-ride-for-2 with my son-in-law occurred. Both were seemingly random appointments that, as I step back to gain perspective, seemed to encourage healthy and needed discussion and the beginnings of closure. Sensing.a.Good.God's.Gracious.Gifts.

Day 11
Yesterday I was feeling very God-loved. This morning I feel shot. Woke up this morning from a very scary dream. I still sail the Thanks-living adventure, thankful it was only a dream.

Day 12
TBT - 2006. Scared. Embarrassed. Feeling awkward... I lost a set of body parts and allowed a photo to be taken of my balding head. Thankful to have survived it all. Identifying with a neighbor's chemo-hat yesterday and her painful journey, which reminds me to find comfort in simple thanks-living. Thinking of this verse today, for various reasons:  "And even the very hairs on your head are all numbered" (Matthew 10:30).  





Day 13
(Written for Day Thirteen but actually posted the evening prior) Thinking about tomorrow’s wary day and date, FRIDAY THE 13th. I recall a pivotal Friday the 13th, on a hot and muggy August 1976. We recited our forever vows: “… to have and to hold from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health…”
Gushy-gush alert: Jeff’s ring finger recently swelled and rejected the wedding band; but, today, 39¼ years later, his loyal digit still holds the indentation. It represents his tried and true character. Thanks-living remembers: There is only one for me... I love him. Always have. Always will... Beyond the edge of reason.

Day 14
Some days it is harder to feel the thanks-living love. Yesterday was one of those days. For various and sundry and sad reasons. Those who witnessed the horrific Paris attacks and were then interviewed kindly spoke our language. I attempt to return the good favor: Priant pour Paris.


* It seems that Thanks-living is beginning to speak different languages. This week my husband experienced a whirlwind, including strong winds that knocked down light poles in front of his place of work. Then, on Friday, the horrific Paris attacks occurred. Il fait pleut.





Saturday, November 7, 2015

Thanks-living 2015, Week One

Day 1
This Thanks-living Month, I will first take time to be thankful for simple things. This is probably a petty thing for which to be thankful, but each morning I awaken to my frisky and only Pet Lydia. He’s not lung-deflating Felix the Cat, nor tick-taxi Fido the Dog, nor hurrying hamster, nor rabbit rabbit rabbit. In a particular way, He jumps with excitement for his one-time-a-day portion of food. He is as friendly as can be. I am needed by, and special to, him. Why is he labeled as a pet when I can’t pet him? Because my luminous blue Betta Fish was purchased at a pet store.

Day 2
My regular dental check-ups are always filled with uncertainty about potential cavities, or the need for another pricey crown, or gum recession; but, after today's visit  there is much to be thankful for. Good news of no cavities, gums are stable, AND my insurance company finally agreed, after a lengthy debate, to cover their portion of a crown bill. The dental hygienist called the forever insurance wait a crown payment's "ON-&-ON-A-THON."

Day 3
A quote from our subdivision's meeting last night: "Living in community with others can also be the definition of a prison. It is when you move past that, to caring about each other, that makes a unique difference."
It's the natural, Pay it Forward reaction to kindnesses. Like, rather than complaining about the neighbor's large storage vehicle parked in front of their house on the road, offer your larger driveway for temporary parking until the next month, when they planned to drop it off in another state. Or, letting your neighbor know they have a package in their box so it won't sit there overnight. Or, offering your garbage can space to the new neighbor moving in who will probably need extra trash can space for a few weeks.
This third day of Thanks-living posts, the caring community attitude comes to mind. Living out these ideals might just catch on and spread in our most cozy little corner of the world.

Day 4
"Hebrew Word Study: Be Still – Raphah. Tehillim (Psalms) 46:10 says, "Be still, and know that I am G-d; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth."
Here, the Hebrew verb, raphah (רָפָה), is often translated “be still”, or “stop striving.” But, as ever with English translations (as good and valuable as they are), they can never quite communicate the depth and subtlety of the original language.
This Hebrew word means to slacken off, to leave alone, to become weak and even to fail. Interestingly, it comes from the same root as the Hebrew for “doctor” (rophe), which is rapha (רָפָא) - to cure, cause to heal, repair or to make whole.
So by understanding Hebrew better, we can see that G-d is saying “relax, be weak, stop” so that you can have some time out to recover, rest and repair. But to what end..?
So that we can “know that He is G-d”, and this is not knowing in our intellect, but rather יָדַע – knowing by intimate experience and informed acquaintance.
When we become less, we can get really personal with the Creator of the Universe and witness Him at work." (Shorashim Ministries)
For Thanks-living, I Let It Go, and Let It Be, at least for today. Now, for some dark chocolate, purchased yesterday at Walgreens on Senior Day. Delish!

Day 5
Throwback Thursday, 1985: I am glad that the only snowman or snow we have in Springfield this 5th day of Thanks-living is pictured to the right, with my most favorite people. Through the ups and particular painful downs of life, they are the reason I live, and, they are 3 of my reasons for living.

Day 6
Needle-phobic and squeamish ones, beware. I did it! My first-ever flu shot was braved yesterday! Neuroses about side-effects stopped me in years past, but for the sake of my precious grand-kiddos, anything. Today, all is well after a good night's sleep, except that, for some odd reason, I dreamed about killing squirmy spiders. I experienced four Thanks-living perks: The shot was done by a most skilled, informative, 1960s Dr. Kildare-like pharmacist with zero needle-entry pain; it will hopefully keep the flu at bay this Thanksgiving; the insurance company paid for the preventive measure; and, I gratefully accepted 3,000 Walgreens bonus points, for little discomfort. A win/win/win/win. Now, to convince Jeff to take one for the Gipper.

Day 7
Before yesterday’s outdoor exercise, I hurriedly and only briefly checked the bike’s tire pressure and decided it was fine. That was incorrect. Both tires were on the low side. So, for the entire ride, the uphill climbs required extra pedal-power. And the downhill glides were unimpressive and close to worrisome. On one hand I was bummed. But, on the other hand, at least the tires didn’t go flat; no road-kill was alongside the road stretch; my new, startle-proof, heads-up handlebar ringer, used for the first time, was appreciated by a walking couple that I approached from behind and then safely notified them, “Passing on your left”; I was pushed in the area of perseverance; and, maybe leg-strength was improved on that gorgeous thanks-living ride.